Crushes is a Discord server with its sole purpose being the betterment of your being in order to fulfill your romantic goals in life. Whether that may be with a long term partner, a short term relationship, or even being asexual! Your needs are based on you and your own. The goal of this server is finding ways to meet your needs in a healthy, possible way, with well-meaning advice. Sometimes this requires nominal change, meanwhile for others it may mean you need to work on yourself. We offer many perspectives, but have a common goal and philosophy in mind. We are not therapists, psychologists, or mental health professionals, however we have experience across a wide variety of lenses. We do not operate on a basis of sex, race, religion, gender, sexuality, GAB, or otherwise identifying characteristics. The advice you receive should be based on treating the other person as a human, the very same species that you are. Don't hesitate to give us a try, because limiting your advice based on discriminating factors is not advice at all; it's looking for an echo chamber. Come stop by!